Dear Lola,
I’m so busy and have no time to date. Do you have any suggestions here? I’m tired of being single and being stuck to everything. Please help!
A: It’s tough to date while you’re busy working and having a family. I would suggest that you try to date and snick in as much [...]
Dear Lola:
I have a brother who has mental problems. He was born that way. He wasn’t always bright. He has a lot of insecurity problems and he is violent sometimes too. What do I do? I live with him and has no other place to go because I’m trying to save money.
Lola:
It’s unfortunate to hear [...]
Dear LOLA,
I have a brother who has bipolar. He’s very disruptive. He destroys the house if you’re not babysitting him. He’s a threat to his own safety. He doesn’t cooperate at all to his family. He’s costly to us. Any tips to help us keep him under control.
LOLA:
It’s difficult having a bipolar kid in the [...]
Dear LOLA,
I like someone who’s married. He’s my boss. Things got really bad because we work together and I can’t refuse him and I don’t want it to affect my work either. What should I do? I don’t want to wreck his family either.
LOLA:
It’s difficult when they’re married. You don’t want to wreck their family [...]
Dear LOLA ,
My husband is very abusive to me. He doesn’t treat me like his wife. He does everything on his own. We never had a good understanding of each other since we were married. We stay together for the kids anyways. He’s not physically violent but he was verbally abusive all the time. I’m [...]
Dear Lola,
I live in a state where there isn’t’ a lot of people from my culture to date. I do date outside of my culture but I find it easier to stick with my own. What should I do to find someone for me that will work out? I enjoy dating people outside of my [...]
Dear Phantom,
I live on my own by myself. I can afford to pay the basic cost but then I have very little money left at the end of the month. I can’t afford to date. I want to save more money and be more stable. Any ideas on how I can improve my finances. [...]
Dear Phantom,
I’m having trouble with my weight. I couldn’t keep my weight healthy. I gain weight very easily. I just don’t like it. Some people just never have to worry about their weight. I have to stay away from certain food and have to work out all the time. What do I do? I [...]
Dear Phantom,
I really like this one guy at my previous jobs but he’s a really wealthy guy. I’m to that wealthy myself. I’m afraid that he will look at me differently. I don’t have a lot of things for him. I feel weird around him. He drives a nicer car than me and has [...]
Dear Phantom,
I like someone at my work place a lot and he knows that I like him. However, his co-workers keep on bullying me because they know that he likes me. He’s a hot guy and they all like him. I want to stay at my job but now I have to quit. One [...]
Dear Phantom,
My husband doesn’t work. He just stays at home and uses my money. He goes to the local bar often and he uses all of my money. He uses me so badly that he I have to even sell my business to cover our expenses. He destroys my life. I’m about to get a [...]
Dear Phantom,
I live with my family but there are a lot of problems. They kept on giving me problems daily. They’re very childish. What do I do? They call me names, hit me sometimes and even threaten to kick me out. They just don’t like me or that they just want to pick on [...]
Dear Phantom,
I had a boyfriend and I got pregnant with him and did not get married to him yet. He suddenly would not return my phone calls and completely disappear out of my life. What do I do? I’m so devastated because I love him very much and I can’t take care of my [...]
Dear Phantom,
My boyfriend live about 8 states away from me, we love each other but we can’t move in with each other. What should I do?
Phantom: It’s so unfortunate that you live so far away from each other. People meet and fall in love and then find out that they live 8 states away from [...]
Dear Phantom,
I’m moving and my boyfriend is not moving with me. What should I do? We live 4 hours apart?
Phantom: It’s difficult when your boyfriend lives apart from you. You will have to move and it’s heart breaking. 4 hours is not that far apart. Perhaps, you can be patient and things will turn out [...]
Dear Phantom,
My boyfriend is really broke. He can’t afford to date me right now. He was expecting me to help him out financially. I don’t have that much money myself. What do I do? I feel really uncomfortable, having to pick up the bills for him. He’s only dating me because he’s trying to find [...]
Dear Phantom,
I don’t really want any children but want to be married. Will men put up with this?
Phantom:
There are men who don’t want children either. It will depend on their age. If they don’t want children then they’re right for you. Children can be a blessing but also a big hassle. They will take away [...]
